What exactly is trust? It could be a feeling.... Or a cause and effect kind of thing. Of course, one cannot say that it itself does not exist. Because it can be gained and lost, and it is seen in the actions of us humans as we live our lives. And yet... no one can really grasp the concept of trust. I suppose I will just start out with what I view as trust, and my experiences with it. Perhaps that will lead me to an explanation. I may even have a sudden great realization, just by reviewing and analyzing my past! Oh the joy! I cannot wait! Let me begin.
I have not had the best experience with trust. It has been an excruciatingly painful and difficult road for me, not to mention a confusing one. I have been turned on, backstabbed, kicked while on the ground, you name it. People seem to always break their trust with me. They gain it, and then do something to lose it all.
Now when I was younger (meaning up until about six or so months ago) It did not take much for me to trust someone. If I became friends with someone, after some time, I felt like I could tell them my life story, and it would be safe with them. I learned about teenage humans the hard way. Not many can really be trusted. From my middle school years, I would have many hurtful tests, and learn lessons that would shape me into the untrusting and, fortunately much wiser person who writes this paper. High school would get no better. With crushes came emotional vulnerability. This would be one of my many downfalls. I was hurt the most in this way. I was taught to be a friendly, caring, and loving
I have not had the best experience with trust. It has been an excruciatingly painful and difficult road for me, not to mention a confusing one. I have been turned on, backstabbed, kicked while on the ground, you name it. People seem to always break their trust with me. They gain it, and then do something to lose it all.
Now when I was younger (meaning up until about six or so months ago) It did not take much for me to trust someone. If I became friends with someone, after some time, I felt like I could tell them my life story, and it would be safe with them. I learned about teenage humans the hard way. Not many can really be trusted. From my middle school years, I would have many hurtful tests, and learn lessons that would shape me into the untrusting and, fortunately much wiser person who writes this paper. High school would get no better. With crushes came emotional vulnerability. This would be one of my many downfalls. I was hurt the most in this way. I was taught to be a friendly, caring, and loving
Hi GG, In my opinion there is no such thing in this life called trust. In these days all people thinking about themselves, nobody care about others. Although, some times you will find somebody will be so close to you and you think you can trust him and you do, but actually he does not care about your trust or even about you and maybe he does not care about losing you from his life. Life became confused, and you can not trust anyone or believe anyone, and I think it is better to be like that, everybody live for his life and everything is clear, we do not need more lies in our life. Maybe it is so difficult to live in this world without trusting somebody and find a close friend, but to live without friend is so better than living with a pain in your whole life because when you live and trust a close friend and he does not care about you or about your feeling, I think this will be the greatest pain in the life.
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